“… a clear, approachable guide to help readers untangle their relationship with money, understand the systems and inequities that impact them, and reclaim financial independence.”―Edgar Villanueva, bestselling author of Decolonizing Wealth
An intersectional approach to personal finance from queer, neurodivergent personal finance educator and TikToker, Ellyce Fulmore.
There’s no magic formula for being “good with money.” The perfect budgeting spreadsheet or debt repayment plan will never address the root of your money issues. When Ellyce Fulmore started her journey with personal finance, she was drowning in $35K of debt, had $60 to her name, and avoided looking at her bank account. Her own “aha” moment came when she realized that the reason she and so many others have struggled with finances has little to do with being “bad with money.” Instead, it has everything to do how identity and lived experience affect financial behaviors.
Now in Keeping Finance Personal, Ellyce offers a shame-free, trauma-aware approach that explores the complex, nuanced, and deeply personal relationship between your identity and your money. With chapters exploring topics such as finding safe spaces, personal values, relationship dynamics, family systems, and culture, it’s clear this is not your typical finance book. Readers will engage with how their upbringing, sense of self, trauma, and mental health impact their decisions, and begin a journey to change their relationship with money.
This book is for the woman facing sexism at her local bank, the neurodivergent person struggling with impulse spending, the young adult questioning societal expectations, the 2SLGBTQIA+ couple searching for a place to rent—all the people that don’t fit into the mold that traditional finance advice is aimed at. Filled with interviews from a diverse range of voices, practical exercises, and tangible tips, Keeping Finance Personal provides a path to develop a healthy money mindset and create a life where financial stability and joy coexist.
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Keeping Finance Personal: Ditch the “Shoulds” and the Shame and Rewrite Your Money Story
“If you're considering buying Keeping Finance Personal, let me warn you: This is not a book. This is a mirror. "Feeling seen" doesn't even cover it—I felt named, identified for things I (as a financial educator!) didn't even realize I struggled with, much less that these parts of my identity affected my money brain so deeply. With every chapter, Ellyce does this magical accordion-y thing: She lays out the financial landscape of incredibly nuanced topics you don't see in other money books, like neurodivergence or gender identity. But then, she gathers you in and makes you feel enclosed in a safe space of real solutions and, above all, true humanity and compassion. Honestly, I want to crawl inside of this book and live there.”—Berna Anat, bestselling author of Money Out Loud
Overall rating: 5.0 / 5 from 21 reviews.
AI Generated Review Summary
Keeping Finance Personal offers a unique approach to personal finance, addressing the intersection of identity and money management. It provides actionable advice and practical exercises for diverse readers, including those facing societal expectations and systemic inequities.
"No judgment, just understanding and practical advice for your diverse, messy, wonderful life." — AlyssaDavis
"This book was like a warm hug, a supportive pep talk, a therapy session, and a how-to guide all in one." — Anonymous96753478776
"You'll get practical advice and action steps along with self-awareness and maybe just a bit of self-empathy." — Jennay
Reviews
Finance Book From Social Lens - AMAZING! 💕
"This book just shot up to one of my top finance book recs. Ellyce really gets into finance from a social lens speaking about gender gaps, racism, and privilege in the finance world. Plus, she’s a YYC neurodivergent queer Swiftie, what more could you want?! 💕"
— Ksmartie (5/5)
Accessible and practicle book on finance
"Highly recommend especially if youve found conventional finance books ineffective for what you need"
— Vee M. (5/5)
Awesome Advice!
"A fantastic finance book that really helped me get a better grasp on money! Ellyce explains things in a what that makes sense for me and offers concrete steps forward. I’ve already started implementing some of the things I’ve learned!"
— Songstress1901 (5/5)
Fills an Important Gap - Highly Recommended
"This book is vital for those individuals who feel as if they have fallen between the cracks in the mainstream financial industry. It discusses the ways in which your identity and other factors can impact your financial well-being and provides very practical tools to help you improve your approach to personal finance. It is not an ""investment tips"" type of book but there are enough of those out there already. Rather, this book discusses some of the underlying reasons that stop people from even getting to the point of thinking about their financial health - and then it helps you to move forward. Ellyce has done an amazing job here. Highly needed and recommended."
— Gezzy (5/5)
Great read
"Great book on changing your perspective on how you perceive and use money."
— Shell (5/5)
You need this book
"Extremely insightful and well written. I love the author and am so glad to see representation in finance. Thank you for writing this Ellyce."
— Holland (5/5)
Personal finance advice that really is for you
"I've never read a personal finance book that expected me to be my own person in the way Keeping Finance Personal does. _x000D_ The author acknowledges that there may be reasons outside ""it's your fault"" for why you may be where you are financially. She helps you see it too, to give yourself a little bit of grace, and ideas to start moving in a positive direction from wherever you're at - all this from an extremely knowledgeable and practical perspective. _x000D_ If you're feeling stuck financially, like you ""should have known better,"" aren't sure where to begin, or want to learn more about how your experience as a person relates to how you interact with your money, I highly recommend this book. You'll get practical advice and action steps along with self-awareness and maybe just a bit of self-empathy."
— Jennay (5/5)
A MUST read for anyone with money anxiety!
"This book was like a warm hug, a supportive pep talk, a therapy session, and a how-to guide all in one. I absolutely loved the way way Ellyce approached potentially stressful topics gently, sharing her personal journey with money and her identity in a way that leaves room for us readers to reflect on our own money story in a judgement-free space. The focus on maintaining your mental health was consistent throughout all the chapters, and was such a refreshing reminder while discussing these challenging concepts - very rare for finance books to have that lens!_x000D_ Managing my money has always brought me anxiety and led to avoidant behaviours. Working through this book not only helped me pinpoint why I feel this way, but also the suggested steps to take have gotten me to a place that I feel more in control and confident, and willing to learn more! I highly recommend this book for anyone who wants to learn more about themselves and their relationship to money."
— Anonymous96753478776 (5/5)
A must read!
"This book is life-changing!! To me, it was more than just a book about teaching me to control my personal finances, it also helped me learn ways to heal past trauma, find my identity and better control my own mental health. Ellyce helps guide you through all these stages in a non-judgmental, shame free and encouraging way while helping you understand your finances. Everyone needs to read and have this book in their life."
— Erin. 2. (5/5)
HIGHLY Recommend this book for FINANCIAL LITERACY
"This book is amazing!! It is so accessible to all readers and provides varying levels of accommodations for each stage a person may be at in their journey toward financial literacy. While I consider myself someone with a deeper background in personal finance, much of it comes from the old-fashioned trope written by old white men. This book smashes through my old beliefs and helps with a more shame-free and trauma-informed approach to counterbalance the stuff I learned previously. I seriously recommend this book for anyone starting their financial literacy journey but especially those that are neurodivergent, queer, or have any other diverse identity."
— KaylaLui (5/5)
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Published date: Jan 23, 2024
Language: English
No. of Pages: 352
Publisher: Grand Central Publishing
ISBN: 9780306831317
Dimensions:
6.4" W x
1.188" L x
9.45" H
Ellyce Fulmore is a queer and neurodivergent financial educator, content creator and the founder of Queerd Co., a financial literacy company. Ellyce is passionate about helping her online community of over half a million find the right tools, strategies and perspective to create a life where financial stability and joy coexist. Ellyce’s work has been featured on many notable platforms such as: The New York Times, The Globe and Mail, The Financial Post, Refinery29, Global News, and CBC Live morning news. She’s helped thousands of people improve their finances through Queerd Co.’s self-led mini courses, email newsletter, digital templates, and signature course, The Neuro$picy Money Method. TikTok: @queerd.co IG: @ellyce.fulmore
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