What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing

Bruce D. Perry , Oprah Winfrey
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What Happened to You?: Conversations on Trauma, Resilience, and Healing

Bruce D. Perry , Oprah Winfrey
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Overall rating: 4.6666665 / 5 from 33 reviews.

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Very Informative

"Great in helping you to understand the effects and impact of trauma."

Kisha (5/5)

Clarity, Why and how to Heal

"This book helps you understand why trauma becomes so ingrained in us. A very helpful read."

Tracy (5/5)

HELPFUL CONVERSATION

"Even after only a few pages, I learned so much. The information was presented in such a manner to be easily understood. Very helpful and good to read."

G I. (4/5)

A great summer read!

"Helping me really understand those who have experienced trauma and help me within my career"

Janelle P. (5/5)

Gave as a Gift

"Friend mentioned this book so I got it for her - no bad review yet?"

Faye (4/5)

Very educational and entertaining

"I love the scientific explanations by Dr Perry and all the concrete examples ! A must read"

Mary (5/5)

One of the Best.

"One of the best books I have ever read, and I read a lot. Fascinating, inspiring, changed the way I view people."

Bill J. (5/5)

Therapist recommendation

"my therapist recommended this. He said, it’s not “what’s wrong with you, it’s what happened to you”"

Melissa R. (5/5)

Amazing Insights

"Loved this book so very much. The conversational nature made it very easy to read. The knowledge shared was so insightful and relevant as a child of trauma. I recommend this as required reading for everyone. It gives you the tools to be a much more empathetic part of society and community."

Tacita B. (5/5)

Smack in the face! Time to deal. Great read!

"I never knew where shut down begins and how trauma years ago could affect adult relationships"

Kkmuller (5/5)

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  • Published date: Sep 15, 2026
  • Language: English
  • No. of Pages: 320
  • Publisher: Flatiron Books
  • ISBN: 9781250223197
  • Dimensions: 5.38" W x 1.0" L x 8.25" H

"Where Hope Lives:

What we experience in childhood shapes us forever—and that is especially true for young victims of trauma. It’s a lesson Oprah learned as a child being raised by an abusive grandmother. She developed 'a keen sense of when trouble was brewing'—when she would be subjected to 'whuppings' at times so brutal, the welts left behind would bleed through her clothing.

As a result of this and other abuse she suffered, Oprah has had a lifelong interest in understanding and overcoming the profound effects of early trauma—and helping others do the same. Now, she’s teamed up with neuroscientist and child trauma expert Bruce Perry, MD, PhD, on this essential book. Revealing, intimate, and educational, it’s a testament to the authors’ wish for readers to come to grips with, and let go of, the past—and to move forward into 'post-traumatic wisdom.'"


—Leigh Haber, O Magazine

Over the course of her esteemed career, Oprah Winfrey has created an unparalleled connection with people around the world. As host and supervising producer of the top-rated, award-winning The Oprah Winfrey Show, she entertained, enlightened, and uplifted millions of viewers for twenty-five years. Her continued accomplishments as a global media leader and philanthropist have established her as one of the most influential and admired public figures in the world today.

Bruce D. Perry, M.D., Ph.D., a child psychiatrist and neuroscientist, is the principal of the Neurosequential Network, senior fellow of the ChildTrauma Academy and an adjunct professor of psychiatry at the Northwestern University School of Medicine in Chicago. He is the author, with Maia Szalavitz, of The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog, a bestselling book based on his work with maltreated children, and Born for Love, about the essential nature of empathy.

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