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A New York Times Bestseller
Named One of TheNew York Times Book Review’s Top Ten Books of the Year
Winner of the National Book Critics Circle Award for Autobiography | Finalist for the Kirkus Prize | Nominated for the Women's Prize for Nonfiction
One of the best-reviewed books of the year, a raw and deeply moving memoir that “pulses with compassion and moral outrage” (The Wall Street Journal) from the legendary author of The God of Small Things and The Ministry of Utmost Happiness that traces her complex relationship with her mother, Mary Roy, a fierce and formidable force who shaped Arundhati’s life both as a woman and a writer.
In this, her first work of memoir, Arundhati Roy writes, “Perhaps even more than a daughter mourning the passing of her mother, I mourn her as a writer who has lost her most enthralling subject.”
Mother Mary Comes to Me, is an intimate chronicle, “full of precise imagery and blistering emotional intelligence” (The Washington Post), of the relationship between two women, a school teacher and a writer, who happen to be mother and daughter. Roy writes with a novelist’s unsettling ability to be inside her own story as well as outside it, simultaneously child and adult, attached and detached, protagonist and narrator. She describes how she came to be the writer she is, shaped by circumstance, but above all by her relationship to her extraordinary, singular mother Mary, who she describes as “my shelter and my storm.”
“Heart-smashed” by Mary’s death, yet puzzled and “more than a little ashamed” by the intensity of her response, Roy began to write, to make sense of her feelings about the mother she ran from at age eighteen, “not because I didn’t love her, but in order to be able to continue to love her.”
With the scale, sweep, and depth of her novels and the passion, political clarity, and warmth of her essays, Mother Mary Comes to Me “builds worlds that are revolutionary, made from the darkness that she spins into purpose” (The New Republic). An ode to freedom, a tribute to thorny love and savage grace—Mother Mary Comes to Me is a memoir like no other.
Heather’s Review
Mother Mary Comes to Me might be the most searing thing I’ve read in years. It moves through time and place with the ease of a novel, yet every word feels rooted in truth. The storytelling is effortless, and the sentences are crafted with such care and precision they almost shimmer. This is the kind of memoir that reminds you why we read: to feel, to reckon, to witness, and to understand more than we did before.
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“The prizewinning novelist’s unsparing memoir, Mother Mary Comes to Me, captures the eventful life and times of her mother, a driven educator and imperfect inspiration.” —The New York Times Book Review
“An electrifying look at the author’s career and activism.” —People Magazine
“Brave and absorbing...In this remarkable memoir, the Booker-winning novelist looks back on her bittersweet relationship with her mercurial mother...The world described in the first part of the book provides much of the material for The God of Small Things. But these pages aren’t significant for giving us access to Roy’s inspiration, or as a preamble to her life as a bestselling writer who would go on to become an oppositional political voice. Even if she were none of these things or had never written her novel, they would be utterly absorbing. They have a wonderful, self-assured self-sufficiency.” —Guardian
“A tender and ambivalent memoir about the difficult Mrs. Roy and a withering polemic about India’s political ills...full of precise imagery and blistering emotional intelligence... It is no accident that Roy is at her most meticulous and probing when she focuses on the person who taught her that a woman, too, can be a full-fledged human being—both a marvel and a monster, both a teacher and a tyrant...Mrs. Roy is not only this book’s eponym but its heroine, and by far its most interesting character.” —The Washington Post
“Roy, the author of the Booker Prize-winning novel The God of Small Things, channels warmth, moral clarity and a sweeping bird’s-eye view of modern India to tell her life story, which was shaped by poverty, violence, political upheaval and—most of all—the volatile single mother who raised her.” —The New York Times
“This book pulses with compassion and moral outrage…Ms. Roy acknowledges that her difficult mother shaped the free-spirited, headstrong, risk-taking writer she became…It’s clear from this memoir that while Ms. Roy has lost her chief adversary, she hasn’t lost her fire.” —The Wall Street Journal
“Writers have the ability to tell stories that create the world we want to live in...With every book, every essay, every speech, Roy builds worlds that are revolutionary, made from the darkness that she spins into purpose.” —The New Republic
“The first memoir from Roy details her come-up as a writer, but it’s as much a biography of her complicated, compelling single mother, Mary…fascinating.” —New York Magazine
“Cinematic…dense with the lyrical language, deep empathy and fierce social critique that have made Roy’s novels international bestsellers….By book’s end, Roy can take stock of the contradictions in her mother’s life—her triumphs, her passionate advocacy for her students, her ‘soul-crushing meanness’—and still love her dearly…Mother Mary Comes to Me may pack the same ‘heart-smashing’ wallop on readers. It is a masterpiece of memoir writing, a rich tapestry of memory, reckoning and longing. ” —May-lee Chai, Minneapolis Star Tribune
"Booker Prize–winning Indian novelist Arundhati Roy recounts a life of poverty and upheaval, defiance and triumph in an emotionally raw memoir, centered on her complicated relationship with her mother...Her candid memoir revives both an extraordinary woman and the tangled complexities of filial love. An intimate, stirring chronicle." —Kirkus Reviews (starred review)
"Purchased for my wife as a Birthday present. The selection was based upon positive reviews and of course Heather's endorsement. I was impressed by the texture of the pages and the binding of the book. My wife thoroughly enjoyed the read and is searching and evaluating other material by the author."
— John (5/5)
A powerful Memoir and Great Read!
"I have not read this author's novels, but something about the memoir appealed to me, probably that I related to her troubled relationship to a strong mother. Roy writes beautifully, in a very easy to read manner and I thoroughly enjoyed the book. As well as being a gifted writer, I admire her social activism, and the book opened my eyes to some of the issues she was involved with. I have added ""The God of Small Things"" to my ""to read"" list. 4. 5/5 stars!"
— Mpcacher1 (4/5)
The title could be mistaken for a religious book. She is referring to her mother who is named Mary.
"As expected, the author has a unique style of expressing her thoughts. I have read other books by same author. Bilingual people sometimes think in their mother tongue and translate into English. By doing so an expression becomes even more vivid. Same way we say something gets lost in translation. It would have been better if she had avoided colloquial American expressions."
— Suma A. (4/5)
The Wealthy Barbour Returns
"I bought this book for my 23 year old grandson which accompanied some money. I read the original book when it was written and thought it served me very well. It is so good that it will be carried down in our family history!"
— Jenni T. (5/5)
Mother Mary comes to me
"Memoir of how her mother influenced and made her into the person she is today, recounting the bittersweet relationship with her mother while describing her life."
— Debbie C. (5/5)
Must read for an admirer of gender equality.
"Very different view of the mother-daughter relationship."
— Koshy (5/5)
My life in words
"Having read her previous novel I was interested to find out more about her."
— Nuala (4/5)
A raw and powerful recount of life
"A compelling reflection on the author’s childhood that is raw, real, and casts few redeeming characters. Her storytelling feels more like listening than reading. Gives you the courage to look back at your life and decisions with the same transparency and grace."
— JA22 (5/5)
An Unforgettable Memoir
"A beautiful memoir. Roy is magnificent in narrating the full complexity of her relationship with her mother. The book is very inspiring. It resists an easy categorization of the important people in our lives; there's such honesty and humility, and humour! A must-read."
— Anita K. (5/5)
Very Graphic
"There is obviously bad blood between Arundhati and her mother Mary. Parts of it, especially when Arundhati and her brother are young that are difficult to read. There is so much conflict, so much emotion."
— Dextras (3/5)
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Published date: Sep 15, 2026
Language: English
No. of Pages: 352
Publisher: Scribner Canada
ISBN: 9781668095096
Dimensions:
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1.0" L x
8.375" H
Arundhati Roy is the author of The God of Small Things, which won the Booker Prize in 1997, and The Ministry of Utmost Happiness, which has been translated into more than forty languages and was longlisted for the Booker Prize. Roy has also published several works of nonfiction, including Azadi, The Algebra of Infinite Justice, Field Notes on Democracy: Listening to Grasshoppers, and Broken Republic. In 2023, she was awarded the prestigious European Essay Prize for lifetime achievement, and in 2024, the PEN Pinter Prize for telling “urgent stories of injustice with wit and beauty.” She lives in Delhi.
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