What to Do When I'm Gone: A Mother's Wisdom to Her Daughter

Suzy Hopkins
Illustrated by Hallie Bateman
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What to Do When I'm Gone: A Mother's Wisdom to Her Daughter

Suzy Hopkins
Illustrated by Hallie Bateman
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Overall rating: 4.6666665 / 5 from 9 reviews.

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The title is the perfect definition of the book and the material inside perfectly justified the title.

"This book is like tonic for your heart. A perfect blend of emotions and humour in between. For someone who leaves far away from her parents, it make me want to ask my mother the next time I visit home."

Tens (5/5)

Life tips and advice

"This book was so sweet. I'm grieving a loss of a parent not in the way where they're gone from this world, but they're gone from me. It made me want to try things again and to do things that are out of my comfort zone or element. It was written in a really sweet way, and I love the graphics of the photos on each page. Beautiful book."

Taylor (5/5)

A helpful tool for navigating grief

"This book was helpful to me in the wake of my own grief. I appreciate how it breaks the advice into simple, short steps, in a down-to-earth tone. The illustrations were a nice touch, too."

Zia G. (5/5)

Good for a gift

"I thought it was cute. It’s been years since my mother passed away, and I wish I’d had this back then"

Katherine (4/5)

A touch of mom humour beginning to end

"This was an excellent read. It helped me to get through those days that felt impossible and to stop fighting the sad so much."

Jj C. (5/5)

Day 279 - buy a book

"Full of wisdom and humor, a cute approach to mending after losing your Mom. I wish I had found this before my Mom passed so I could have laughed and cried my way through it with her and had personalized tips to guide me on this journey no one wants to be on. A great gift for others struggling with the same loss."

Miss I. (5/5)

Perfect to Pass down to your daughters

"Great way to leave for daughters a self help book for dealing with the grief when you are gone."

Sophia (5/5)

Something to be given to your daughter when you pass.

"A story about words of wisdom from a mother to her daughter, when she is gone."

Jan B. (5/5)

Book Review

"Not really what I expected. Expected more story type text"

Gail G. (3/5)

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  • Published date: Apr 03, 2018
  • Language: English
  • No. of Pages: 144
  • Publisher: Bloomsbury USA
  • ISBN: 9781632869685
  • Dimensions: 6.8" W x 0.65" L x 9.05" H

“Hallie Bateman and her mother have created a funny, beautiful guidebook . . . that's simultaneously deeply personal and super universal in that it chisels to the core of how complicated and wonderful mother-daughter relationships are.” —Los Angeles Magazine

“The very concept of this book--Hopkins' day-by-day breakdown of what Bateman should do when she's gone--immediately made me emotional, but the book itself is surprisingly hopeful, and a reminder that there's life again even after unimaginable loss.” —Shondaland "New Books You'll Want to Read This April"

“A true collaboration . . . Readers may expect that this mother-daughter exercise is heartfelt but will probably be surprised by how thorough it is in its thoughtful treatment of how to handle one's own life and death in addition to the loss of a loved one.” —Booklist

“The advice is always warm and often wise, accompanied by illustrations that often reflect a playfulness reminiscent of Roz Chast. This isn't a morbid book, nor a particularly dark one, but a book about facing the inevitable with grace and good humor.” —Kirkus

“Full of the kind of counsel that will have readers longing to call their own mother, the book additionally features recipes that, while lacking in precision, exemplify Hopkins's charming, loving voice.” —Library Journal

“An exceptional self-help guide . . . Their graphic memoir is filled with plenty of heartfelt wisdom and edgy humor reminiscent of Roz Chast's Can't We Talk About Something More Pleasant? . . . What can you do to help someone who's recently lost a mom? Give them a copy of What to Do When I'm Gone.” —BookPage

“A heartfelt illustrated manual to navigating the grieving process. Written from the perspective of the deceased, and told through punchy language and moving illustrations, What to Do When I'm Gone feels less like a self-help book and more like your deceased loved one taking your hand as you move from one stage of grief to the next. The result is a thoughtful, engaging work that serves as a guidebook, a comfort, and a reminder of a mother's love. It's funny, too.” —The Gazette

“A gorgeous, practical, loving and lovely book.” —Caroline Leavitt

“Taking something as monumental as grief and loss and making it handleable, even for a small bit of time, is no small achievement. And this book achieves just that with humor and honesty and recipes. All critical for persevering.” —Maira Kalman

“Brimming with beautiful illustrations and hilarious, touching prose, this book is perfect for every mother and daughter and anyone who will someday lose someone they love, which is to say, everyone. I laughed and cried then immediately called my own mother and asked her to tell me everything now, before it's too late.” —Wendy MacNaughton

“Beautiful, heart-wrenching, funny. I'll keep this book close till the day I need it--and pass it to my son for the day he will.” —Ally Sheedy

Suzy Hopkins is a former newspaper reporter and magazine publisher. She is also coauthor of What to Do When You Get Dumped with her daughter, writer and illustrator Hallie Bateman. She lives in Cincinnati, Ohio.
Hallie Bateman is a writer and illustrator whose work has appeared in the New Yorker, the NYT Magazine, and many others. Her books include Directions, Brave New Work, and What to Do When You Get Dumped. She lives in Cincinnati, Ohio.

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