Becoming a Matriarch: A Memoir

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#1 NATIONAL BESTSELLER

A GLOBE AND MAIL BEST BOOK OF THE YEAR
ONE OF CBC’S BEST NONFICTION BOOKS OF THE YEAR
ONE OF INDIGO’S TEN BEST BOOKS OF THE YEAR

CO-WINNER OF THE 2024 GEORGE RYGA AWARD FOR SOCIAL AWARENESS IN LITERATURE
WINNER OF THE 2024 JIM DEVA PRIZE FOR WRITING THAT PROVOKES
SHORTLISTED FOR THE 2024 HUBERT EVANS NON-FICTION PRIZE
FINALIST FOR THE 2024 GOVERNOR GENERAL'S LITERARY AWARD FOR NONFICTION
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Praise for Becoming a Matriarch

Becoming a Matriarch is about the work of carving out a ‘beautiful space’ in a life where freedom and love can flourish. Helen Knott tells the story of the women in her family pushing up against the boundaries of gender, race, and class and, in so doing, Knott shows us that another way of living is possible. Her sentences are poetic and dazzling; they are little anchors the grieving can fasten themselves to—readers will surely return to them again and again.” —Billy-Ray Belcourt, author of A Minor Chorus

“In enchantingly vivid language and with a compelling narrative arc, Helen Knott’s new masterpiece is a memoir of grief and joy, loss and rediscovery, flight and return and, above all, a paean to the beautiful, eternal, soothing and all-encompassing power of matriarchy.” —Gabor Maté MD, author of The Myth of Normal: Trauma, Illness and Healing in a Toxic Culture

“Knott lays out that which all Indigenous women know and feel on a cellular level—we are only here because of the women, the matriarchs, the warriors, the survivors, the courageous ones, the fierce ones, the loving ones who came before us. Beautifully, tenderly Knott maps out for the reader the intrinsic way Indigenous women lift up, celebrate and support one another. Even when no one else does. We always have each other. We see each other. We are each other’s medicine. And there is no greater gift. These are the stories Indigenous women must tell—the journeys, reclamation and place of matriarchs. Present in Knott’s words are paths to reconciliation for everyone.” —Nahanni Fontaine, Member of the Legislative Assembly of Manitoba

“Becoming a Matriarch
is a vivid, lyrical exploration of womanhood, loss, grief, and eventually, self-love, braided together with radiance and wisdom. Knott brilliantly uses memory as a tool for self-exploration and growth. The land, dreams and body are in constant communication: ‘My body knows the mountains and rivers and berry bushes that it comes from.’ Throughout the book you can’t help but ask yourself, what does it mean to come from strong women and still allow yourself space to be loved? Becoming a Matriarch teaches us that joy can exist inside the cracks of the most tumultuous times in our lives and love can still bloom if we let it.” —Chelene Knight, author of Dear Current Occupant and Junie

Becoming a Matriarch is a feast of remarkable, colourful, deep and profoundly raw storytelling. Helen Knott is one of the greatest Indigenous literary artists of our time.” —Brandi Morin, author of Our Voice of Fire: A Memoir of a Warrior Rising

“Profoundly moving. . . . With wit and courage, Knott takes the reader along her journey of self-discovery from the depths of loss and grief to rise as a matriarch herself.” Indiginews

Praise for In My Own Moccasins

"The best kind of memoir: clear-eyed, generous, and glorious. . . . Bear witness to the emergence of one of the most powerful voices of her generation." —Eden Robinson, author of Son of a Trickster and Monkey Beach (from the foreword)

"Intelligent, courageous, emotionally searing. " —Globe and Mail

"Proclaims healing a revolutionary act. " —Booklist

"An incredibly forceful and moving book, the embodiment of what it means to reconcile, both with oneself and with others. " —Quill & Quire

“Knott’s brilliance is in describing the weight [of intergenerational trauma], while describing the way forward. . . . Becoming a Matriarch [is] a glimpse of a map for those of us still finding our heart strength.”BC Book Look

“Helen Knott speaks truth to the experience of Indigenous women living through the violence of colonized spaces and she does so with grace, beauty and a ferocity that makes me feel so proud.” —Leanne Betasamosake Simpson, author of Noopiming: The Cure for White Ladies

“Helen writes beautifully and painfully, about her own life and the lives of many of our sisters. A strong, gentle voice removing the colonial blanket and exposing truth.” —Maria Campbell, author of Halfbreed

“An incredible debut that documents how trauma and addiction can be turned into healing and love. I am in awe of Helen Knott and her courage. I am a fan for life. Wow.” —Richard Van Camp, author of The Lesser Blessed

“Heartfelt, heartbreaking, triumphant and raw, In My Own Moccasins is a must-read for anyone who's ever felt lost in their life. . . Actually, it's a must-read for anyone who appreciates stories of struggle, redemption and healing. Knott’s writing is confident, clear, powerful and inspiring.” —Jowita Bydlowska, author of Guy: A Novel and Drunk Mom

“Powerful, filled with emotion.” —Carol Daniels, author of Bearskin Diary and Hiraeth

"A beautiful rendering of how recovery for our peoples is inevitably about reconnecting with Indigenous identities, lands, cultural and healing practices." —Kim Anderson, author of Reconstructing Native Womenhood

Overall rating: 4.928571 / 5 from 14 reviews.

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Raw, emotional and heartfelt

"Raw, emotional and heartfelt storytelling. Helen Knott is a gifted writer who shares the small and big moments that have defined her. Worth reading!"

MichelleSG (5/5)

Incredible

"This was an incredible book! So insightful and inspiring"

Dawn (5/5)

Living a Life of Gratitude

"This book is a blueprint for living a life of gratitude, reciprocity and relationship, based on the example of the serviceberry. It provides a model for how we can implement these values in our every day lives. As such, it is a demonstration of how the natural world can provide solutions to the capitalist, competitive imperative that is depleting and destroying the world around us. Instead, we can build relationships that are life-sustaining, following principles of gratitude and respect. This is the world we wish future generations to inherit."

Lynne D. (5/5)

Emotional and powerful story of healing

"This was such an honest and raw glimpse into loss. How grief can impact a person to their very core and how surviving through these absences can feel like a defining characteristic of the person you become in the after. I deeply connected to this book. In a way I didn’t know I was striving for understanding of what it truly was to experience a foundational loss until I passed though these tears streaked pages. I mean I understand how loss can create a new reality and relationship with the world, I just didn’t really think how it resonated through time and generations. A history of women, the stories the land keeps and what we pass on - the good, the bad, the ugly. A lyrical approach to examining the need for connection and for finding yourself outside of expectation or societal normatives. A way to brake through toxic trauma and conditioning as part of a community that was forced into conforming to a way of life that was not their own. This book came into my life just when I needed it. Perhaps a coincidence or a little piece of fate, if you believe in those sorts of things. Either way, this was beautiful to walk through. This may be triggering and emotional for some readers, but I found it a powerful one and may be good for this contemplative season. As always, I don’t like to rate memoirs as they are lived experiences. All I will say is that this one packed a punch without being too long."

Karisbookclub (4/5)

Insightful

"Have been meaning to pick up this book for awhile, and I'm glad I finally did. So far it's interesting and insightful, I find her writing very profound."

Sarah (5/5)

When choices present themselves

"I loved the ease in the writing and the humanity. Important insight with a real self-actualization narrative."

C F. (5/5)

A glimpse into Indigenous Matriarchy

"Beautifully written. Shows the importance of Indigenous matriarchs in our families."

Tera (5/5)

Loved it!

"I loved this book! It didn’t take me long to finish and I can’t wait to read the authors other work. I’ve recommend this to everyone I’ve known"

Saman (5/5)

Beautiful

"This book speaks to my heart. It is well written, and feels like my experience as a mother and losing someone so important in my life and in that role is not as singular an experience as it feels. This book is healing."

Cassie (5/5)

How to own our turn as the matriarch without letting it own us.

"A great story of mothers, daughters, and grandmothers. On looking up to and relying on our matriarchs to becoming the matriarchs to the next generations as our matriarchs pass on. Most importantly, learning to become those matriarchs on our own terms by learning the lessons of the past. Beautifully written."

Shan (5/5)

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  • Published date: Aug 29, 2023
  • Language: English
  • No. of Pages: 216
  • Publisher: Knopf Canada
  • ISBN: 9780385697774
  • Dimensions: 5.7" W x 0.8" L x 8.5" H
HELEN KNOTT is a Dane Zaa, Nehiyaw, Métis, and mixed Euro-descent woman from Prophet River First Nations, and lives in Fort St. John, British Columbia. In 2016 Helen was one of sixteen global change makers featured by the Nobel Women's Initiative for being committed to ending gender-based violence. Helen was selected as a 2019 RBC Taylor Prize Emerging Author. Her debut memoir, In My Own Moccasins (University of Regina Press, 2019), was a national bestseller, longlisted for the RBC Taylor Prize, and won the Saskatchewan Book Award for Indigenous Peoples' Publishing.

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